Choosing the right sensual masseuse is crucial for a safe and fulfilling experience. Perhaps you have found yourself on this site but are unsure if my offerings are to your liking, so you want to look further.... I have written up a brief list of tips on how to find the perfect match for yourself! :)
1. Research + Websites
This is based on clients' feedback - Personal websites are often a good indicator of professionalism and legitimacy. They should generally detail services offered, any boundaries the therapist has, possible qualifications, as well as the therapist’s approach to sensual massage. I am not sure how legitimate reviews are on therapists' sites, as these can be easily written by the masseuses themselves, so I personally wouldn't necessarily take these seriously. However, the therapist's attitude and professionalism over the phone, combined with a good website, should hopefully be a good indicator that you might be on the right track!
2. Initial Consultation
You can arrange a quick chat over the phone. This helps establish trust and allows you to ask important questions (that cannot be answered by simply reading the therapist's site). If you are a neophyte, or just a bit anxious, it can also be reassuring to hear the person's voice.
3. Comfort and Compatibility
Your comfort is paramount. This is an intimate service - and both the client and therapist are putting themselves into a vulnerable position here, It is important that both parties are respectful and comfortable with each other. Whilst you can never be 100% certain that the energies will be the perfect match, you can use the initial consultation to gauge your comfort level with the masseuse.
4. Specialisations and boundaries
Different therapists specialise in various techniques and offerings. Please ensure the therapist has expertise in the specific type of sensual massage you’re seeking, whether it's tantric, erotic, or another style. If you are one of those that prefer to have 'extras' added to your sensual massage experience (be it oral sex or more...), make sure to ask the therapist if this is something she is comfortable with - to avoid any awkwardness. I do not have this happen to me that often anymore, but it used to be quite common in the past for me to have clients ask for oral sex or more - even though I am very clear on my do's and dont's.. To avoid disappointment, you want to make sure you understand what is and isn't offer - before you book in your session. :)
5. Clear Communication and Professionalism
Ensure the masseuse is open to listening to your needs and concerns. Good communication is essential for a positive experience.
6. Pricing Transparency
Check/discuss pricing and available (if available) add-ons upfront. Ensure there are no hidden costs and that the services align with your budget and expectations.
Hope this helps! :)